BREAK THE SCRIPT.
THE DEFAULT IS NOT A DECISION.
Your motherhood decision deserves more than a default answer.
Find clarity with courses, coaching, and therapy for women who are ready to approach their motherhood decision with intention rather than expectation.
Sound Familiar?
👉When it comes to the kids or childfree decision, fears and "what-ifs" are running the show. It's hard to know the difference between what you actually want, and what everyone else expects of you.
👉You've put so much time and effort into thinking about this decision but you still feel anxious and confused about which choice is right for you.
👉Your indecision about motherhood is causing you to put off important decisions about your future while you’re waiting for an answer.
👉It's hard to understand what you're feeling in the midst of everything else that's going on. You feel like you've lost touch with yourself and what you wanted your life to look like.
👉You're so overwhelmed by making this decision that you can't decide where to start.
DISCOVER YOUR PATH. EMPOWER YOUR CHOICE.
We're taught to assume that motherhood is inevitable... that we'll eventually change our minds or "just know" and that there's only one meaningful way to build a fulfilling future.
But what happens when your truth doesn't fit the script?
What is Motherhood Indecision?
Motherhood indecision is the ongoing uncertainty about whether becoming a mother is right for you. You may have spent months or even years trying to figure it out, weighing the possibilities, replaying the what-ifs, and searching for an answer that still feels out of reach.
You know you have a choice. What’s hard is figuring out what you actually want beneath the fear, expectations, and pressure to get it right.
And when everyone seems to have an opinion about what your future should look like, it can be hard to hear your own.
Hi There, I'm Jessica!
I'm a therapist, coach, and motherhood indecision specialist who believes that every woman should be empowered in her decision about if, when, or how she wants to become a mother.
I've spent over 15 years working in women's reproductive health, supporting women across an extraordinary range of experiences—from those who deeply love motherhood to those who regret becoming mothers, women who know they don't want children, women navigating infertility and grieving the motherhood experience they hoped for, and women still trying to figure out whether motherhood is right for them.
Through this work, I've come to understand just how complex our relationship with motherhood can be—and how often women find themselves trying to figure out what they want while simultaneously trying to figure out what they're supposed to want.
I help women untangle their own desires from the narratives they've inherited.
I'm not here to tell you what to do… I'm here to help you hear yourself more clearly.Â
Together, we make space for the complicated feelings that can come with this decision—including grief, uncertainty, fear, and shame—without judgment or pressure to arrive at a particular answer.
Because this isn't just about making a decision about motherhood... It's about creating a future that authentically aligns with who you are!
The result? Greater clarity, deeper self-trust, and a decision that feels authentically yours.Â
How I Can Help
Can't decide if motherhood is for you? Whether you're looking for one-on-one support or a place to begin on your own, I've got the resources you need to feel more confident in your motherhood decision.
Motherhood Indecision Therapy
For women who want support exploring the emotional, relational, or personal experiences connected to their motherhood decision. Therapy can offer space to work through anxiety, grief, shame, past experiences, and the expectations that make this decision feel so difficult.
Motherhood Indecision Coaching
For women who want a structured, intentional space to explore their values, priorities, fears, and hopes for the future—and move toward a decision that feels aligned with who they are.
